Hello fellow neurodivergents,
I’m applying to a job that I’m really excited about for various reasons, about to have my second interview so things are looking good but obviously I’m not guaranteed anything yet.
The only problem is it’s an office job, and specifically an open concept office.
Right now I have a remote job and I’m honestly not that bummed about working in an office. It’s super close to me and I could use the physical and mental work life separation. I’d prefer a hybrid job but meh. Besides, if I really end up hating it I can just quit, I think I’m pretty hireable. I want to make a life change.
I’m nervous about the open concept part, and I have some questions but also I’d just be happy for anyone to talk about their experience.
- Are people going to be annoyed at me if I fidget, move around, and pace a lot? All of these activities help me think and soothe my anxiety.
- Are people going to be like, constantly looking at my screen? Am I going to feel judged the whole time?
- I have the classic ADHD “do double the work in half the time, do nothing the other half”. Am I going to be judged on my work output, or how busy I make myself look?
- If I have downtime, would it be acceptable to read a book or something?
- If I have a chat with my coworker sitting next to me, is the whole office going to hear it? Am I going to be interrupting and bothering everyone? I like talking to my coworkers.
- Did you disclose ADHD to your boss? Did you get any accommodations for it?
Like I said, I’d just be happy to hear anyone’s experiences.
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On top of what’s been said: People will suddenly spawn right next to you and start talking, seemingly mid-sentence. Your thoughts will be interrupted, errors will increase, and on top of all that, they expect the right response.
It’s hell, at least for me. Try it if you want.