I don’t understand. What does it say? I was on reddit for 10 years and only had one account.

What does it matter if I give myself some grace if society does expect me to run that marathon though?

I always, always, always open with “I am VERY bad with names so please forgive me if I have to ask again next time. … no, yes, I get that you think you’re bad with names too, but you don’t understand.” Okay, admittedly, I only think that second part.

Oh also, especially fun in context of ADHD and various psychiatric comorbidities:

Medical personnel: Do you ever experience [situation]?

Me: oh yes, all the time.

Medical personnel: Can you give an example?

My brain: (whiter noise)

Medical personnel: Hello, you waited so long for this important appointment, let’s get started right away, yeah? So tell me about your symptoms.

My brain: (white noise)

Fucking worst.

This works for you. Congratulations. You found a thing that works for you. You, who is privileged enough to have the space AND the mental capacities to grow things at home. Your situation is extraordinary and your advice is not advice.