Thank you for the explanation, but by your logic any deviation from unconditional, thoughtless, unquestioning support is a dogwhistling hateful statement?

By reacting like the people in comments did they’re alienating anyone unwilling to follow that group blindly.

Look, I’m queer, from Poland, I marched, donated, volunteered and housed alphabetical people in need, and I can see the societal pendulum swinging back right because people are tired of being pushed down for thinking or downright bullied.

Interesting. Totally not how I understand the text. I read it as, rephrase:

(cis) women and trans women aren’t the same, but both should be treated like women with respect

And when I read it like that, you all seem to be overreacting to me.

I’m not sure if an admin of an instance is in any way shape or form a head of a community.

They are not voted in.

Most people join lemmy instances at random or by sorting them by userbase size.

I’m too lazy to shop around for a different admin/instance. Why would I? I don’t care about the guy.

I was banned for questioning Ada if defederating from an instance because she does not like a mod from there is a wise choice (I think not, because isolationism never ends well for isolating community).

Then I got banned from the other blahaj for being banned by Ada (“transphobic”).

Oh well.