I was banned from all of Bahaj for using “dude” then questioning if dude was the word someone was taking offense of and as the word I misgendered them with.
I had the opposite experience. When I was a teenager, I tolerated being gendered by society. After I grew up, I started learning about trans issues, and asserted my own identity. I put up with other people’s gendered bullshit for 18 years, I don’t have to tolerate it anymore.
I was banned for questioning Ada if defederating from an instance because she does not like a mod from there is a wise choice (I think not, because isolationism never ends well for isolating community).
Then I got banned from the other blahaj for being banned by Ada (“transphobic”).
Yeah, one time she banned drag for pointing out she broke a promise, and drag didn’t even mean to! Drag thought she kept the promise and was telling a harasser they’d been told to cut it out. Turns out she didn’t, and banned drag for making her look bad. You’re right, wrong decision every time.
You joke and stuff, but the fact remains that Ada is ok with the support for russian genocidal imperialism among tankie instances (Grad, ML, hexbear) and even has no issues with russia’s brutality against their LGBT community.
Theatrics about “TERF island” are clearly a much bigger priority than actual abuse of LGBT folks (and cis folks for that matter) at the hands of the russians.
Drag isn’t joking. Drag’s ban was the result of a very serious debate about best practice for talking people down from suicide. Drag did so in a way some users disagreed with, and there was a very clear harassment campaign from one user. Ada didn’t shut it down because she agreed with that user’s take. Blahaj isn’t a safe place even for trans people within the community if the admin decides they’re not worth protecting. Drag believed Blahaj’s messages of being a safe space, and got banned very specifically for believing in Ada. Blahaj fails members of its own community, and punishes them for expecting better.
We found a connoisseur of russian culture. Well let’s hope the russians introduce such a connoisseur as yourself to their fascinating use of champagne bottles.
Being into fantasy fiction and dudes I’d get, but calling yourself a dragon fucker (you used to be way more explicit) because you and the dude you like pretend he’s a dragon, that’s just wild.
A real non-euphemistic dragon rider wouldn’t be on a lemmy forum either, so I don’t get how that isn’t immersion breaking.
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Ada makes the wrong decisions literally every time she has a moderation choice.
A coin would have a better track record.
She frequently gives in to trolls over users and bans anyone who dares criticize her
I can’t beleive I used to want to participate in that space.
I was banned from all of Bahaj for using “dude” then questioning if dude was the word someone was taking offense of and as the word I misgendered them with.
Meta-pronouns was already a bridge too far.
They’re incredibly sensitive people.
I have a trans kid that is a teenager their best friend is trans, I am aware lmao
I had the opposite experience. When I was a teenager, I tolerated being gendered by society. After I grew up, I started learning about trans issues, and asserted my own identity. I put up with other people’s gendered bullshit for 18 years, I don’t have to tolerate it anymore.
I was banned for questioning Ada if defederating from an instance because she does not like a mod from there is a wise choice (I think not, because isolationism never ends well for isolating community).
Then I got banned from the other blahaj for being banned by Ada (“transphobic”).
Oh well.
Yeah, one time she banned drag for pointing out she broke a promise, and drag didn’t even mean to! Drag thought she kept the promise and was telling a harasser they’d been told to cut it out. Turns out she didn’t, and banned drag for making her look bad. You’re right, wrong decision every time.
You joke and stuff, but the fact remains that Ada is ok with the support for russian genocidal imperialism among tankie instances (Grad, ML, hexbear) and even has no issues with russia’s brutality against their LGBT community.
Theatrics about “TERF island” are clearly a much bigger priority than actual abuse of LGBT folks (and cis folks for that matter) at the hands of the russians.
Drag isn’t joking. Drag’s ban was the result of a very serious debate about best practice for talking people down from suicide. Drag did so in a way some users disagreed with, and there was a very clear harassment campaign from one user. Ada didn’t shut it down because she agreed with that user’s take. Blahaj isn’t a safe place even for trans people within the community if the admin decides they’re not worth protecting. Drag believed Blahaj’s messages of being a safe space, and got banned very specifically for believing in Ada. Blahaj fails members of its own community, and punishes them for expecting better.
I love drag <3 Drag is great
For real if they support the russians they belong in camps. The russians are the most wrong thing in the world.
reddit ass comment
We found a connoisseur of russian culture. Well let’s hope the russians introduce such a connoisseur as yourself to their fascinating use of champagne bottles.
Good to see you’re still around, Drag. Hope you’re doing well!
This website is a clownshow, “Dragonfucker”.
You, Smorty, Ada, Dessalines
So many insane prominent users.
If being sane means being boring, then drag doesn’t want to be sane
Being into fantasy fiction and dudes I’d get, but calling yourself a dragon fucker (you used to be way more explicit) because you and the dude you like pretend he’s a dragon, that’s just wild.
A real non-euphemistic dragon rider wouldn’t be on a lemmy forum either, so I don’t get how that isn’t immersion breaking.
Please don’t misgender drag’s partner.