Makes deliberately inflammatory comment to make a point
People are mildly rude in response to the inflammatory comment
HOW DARE YOU, I’M LITERALLY CRYING, I’M GOING HOME FOREVER
1 is fine. 2 is fine. That’s how things work. I have no idea, though, how someone who reacts with 3 expects to be able to manage ordinary day-to-day life. Let alone weigh in on a situation of death and destruction and geopolitical crime against humanity. Like, if this is your bar for what makes you quit, your movement is going to be pretty fucking easy for the establishment to destroy.
I’m not saying that everyone needs to toughen up and put up with whatever treatment they receive. I’m just saying that, in particular since it looks like the #2 response was actually quite a bit milder than the #1 inflammatory original post, the DARVO reaction featured in #3 seems kind of needlessly extra.
I am starting to question the rationale behind admins banning people for being on toxic websites when people can say the same thing about the fediverse itself (take Leniforinstance).
Oops, sorry :p i can see it fine because admins can, didn’t realize users can’t. Here’s a screenshot:
DING DING Hey Sunshine, get a life you fucking loser. It is weird that you are obsessed with me and have to follow me around on Lemmy but I would find something better to do with my time. I wrote this specifically on a week old inactive thread to see how long it would take for you to post this on your harassment sub you sick creep and it actually worked LOL. Having a difference of opinion about anything doesn’t mean you need to follow someone around and post about them and create drama. Making dozens of accounts so you can manipulate Lemmy is truly unhinged behavior. Get mental help you stalker.
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Got shut down after this post on MOG was made:
Which he (Hamid) responded to with this:
This was the last comment he made:
tl;dr: he was sick of getting into lemmy drama
1 is fine. 2 is fine. That’s how things work. I have no idea, though, how someone who reacts with 3 expects to be able to manage ordinary day-to-day life. Let alone weigh in on a situation of death and destruction and geopolitical crime against humanity. Like, if this is your bar for what makes you quit, your movement is going to be pretty fucking easy for the establishment to destroy.
I’m not saying that everyone needs to toughen up and put up with whatever treatment they receive. I’m just saying that, in particular since it looks like the #2 response was actually quite a bit milder than the #1 inflammatory original post, the DARVO reaction featured in #3 seems kind of needlessly extra.
One fine example of such:
I looked up the context because I was kind of curious, and I really remembered why I don’t go to those places on the federated internet anymore.
Well, partly because I am banned, but also because it is a hostile waste of time. They are both valid reasons I guess lol.
I don’t blame them, lemmy drama is shockingly toxic as hell. I don’t blame them removing the instance and retiring as admin.
Lemmy as a whole feels very toxic, i don’t blame him at all and wish him the best.
I am starting to question the rationale behind admins banning people for being on toxic websites when people can say the same thing about the fediverse itself (take Leni for instance).
It can be tiring at times, but it’s unavoidable with a federated model.
Its unavoidable on centralised platforms too.
Oh, indeed. Ironically, it’s much less visible because it’s silenced by the admins.
You can say that again.
Hey, the picture changed
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I noticed that vegantheoryclub.org now redirects to that picture on imgur.
I mentioned that in the post :P
My bad. Me not read good.
That link seems to be broken.
Oops, sorry :p i can see it fine because admins can, didn’t realize users can’t. Here’s a screenshot:
This was under a normal megathread for the instance
Sounds like some other stalkers I know who respond to stuff.
B… bóbr kurwa?!
He Bóbr’d his last kurwa 😭