Like a budget hard drive after 6 months use, my memory is shot. I feel like I can barely remember anything.

I’ve been learning to code for the past 6 months and I have to periodically relearn all the concepts I had already learnt to implement them. I must mention that I am also trying to learn another language as well as do my full-time day job at the same time.

It feels like I am barely making any progress and that has been a shot in the arm to my confidence.

I don’t want to feel like I suck at everything, the only thing I think I have going for myself is that I think I can improve myself.

Any tips to help with memory retention?

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How much of a brain break are you giving yourself?

If you’re spending a large amount of time on learning each day, you might look into structuring your learning so you’re doing it in small segments each day. Learn for 30 minutes, then go do something mindless for an hour.

Since short term memory is largely written to long term memory while you sleep, maybe try working on it an hour or so before you go to sleep.

Also, how are you learning? Are you doing exercises as you learn each concept, or are you reading a bunch then trying to throw everything together after?

For me, the only way I retain information like that is to actually work with the knowledge. Taking notes, like many have suggested, doesn’t work for me. I learn best when I have a task I want to accomplish, and I have to go research what I need to complete it.

Guided learning (school, training courses, books) really doesn’t transfer to long term knowledge for me, so I structure my learning differently. I feel like this is a pretty common thing with ADHD.

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i write millions of notes for everything.

to that i add a similar amount of reminders.

not just for learning etc.

also for things like the first todos of the next day: shower, prepare food, pack this, …

for remembering for short-medium timeranges very simple notes suffice.

i know lots of stuff. i just can’t access it without a trigger.

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i know lots of stuff. i just can’t access it without a trigger.

Yes! This is exactly how I work. I’ve said before that my brain works like the Google home page: Completely blank until it gets input, then, it spews out everything it knows related to that input.

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Unsure if it’d be your case, but maybe you’re too tired? Tiredness can mess memory afaik. Or maybe you’re not using the ideal learning methods? In my case for language learning, for example, repetition is a guaranteed way for me to lose focus, instead with cinversations being ideal for learning.

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For language, I was using a textbook but currently I am just doing Duolingo to keep myself acquainted while I pick up my textbook learning habit again. Also subscribing to relevant subs and communities to stay fresh and immersed.

My issue is mostly with coding and retaining concepts I learnt for that.

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Take notes. It’s the only way I’m able to hang onto specific information and concepts ( ie code syntax, structures, processes ) in any reliable way. Your own notes are infinitely more valuable than any textbook(or blog or forum or whatever). Your own notes will be in your thought patterns, meaning when you read them later the information is ‘ready-to-eat’. Textbooks written by someone else provide information which first needs to be wrestled into shape before you can use it.

I have a self-hosted nextcloud server. I spent weeks learning how to set up apache, SSL certificiates etc. Then when 3 months later something broke, I had to learn it again from scratch - which led to me writing ‘guides’ for myself for all the stages of the process so the next failure would be easier to recover.

If it’s worth remembering, it’s worth writing down.

All the best! New languages (human or machine) are always difficult, but incredibly rewarding.

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If it’s worth remembering, it’s worth writing down.

Quote of the day there.

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Thank you.

What do you suggest hand written notes or digital ones?

I have also found myself in this situation and try to keep obsidian notes. But sometimes it feels counterintuitive, because there is so much to write. I fixed a bug, should I write it down? But I also fixed three to two bugs, should I write them all down?

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handwritten

the physical act of writing helps me remember, I often don’t even look at them again

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Keep a journal.

I have a single journal for daily events, in excel of all things.

I have a title column, date, related to (Linux, Tailscale, Health, etc) then a Notes column. This way I can filter on the related to column and search it.

I have links to OneNote pages (or just titles), and could easily do the same with Obsidian or anything else. There are years of notes in it now. Anything I’ve fixed is in there, so easy to find again with my own wording (which is how it started, then I realized keeping a separate personal journal made it harder to see things in general, or connections specifically) .

On my phone I use an app called… Memento. It’s like excel, but designed for a simpler UI. Easy for me to create new databases on a whim, or simply add info to one.

I believe many people witg ADHD have a working memory deficit too, so getting new info into long term memory is more crucial for them.

I also agree that handwritten is generally best for journals/notes like this, I just needed it to be searchable.

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I don’t know. I have a similar journal, but I find myself dreading entering info in it because there’s too much to do and the ADHD makes it even more difficult to process and commit to.

There’s also just too much to do and too little time. There’s just too many things to cope with.

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Second the taking notes idea.

Can say in my case, a txt file for useful commands I’ve been feeding since I started using Linux 4 years ago has been invaluable.

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