Well there’s really no safe level of anything. Literally everything you do increases your odds of dying. It’s all about proportion. Breathing doesn’t increase your odds of dying very much.
The conversation around nicotine is severely lacking in comparisons of scale. It’s all like “IF YOU SMOKE LITERALLY ONE CIGARETTE YOU WILL DIE OF HORRIBLE CANCER” which is a ridiculous thing to be putting out there. I get the intent, it’s because cigarettes are addictive and smoking one usually leads to smoking more, but it really makes it difficult to get a sense of how harmful cigarettes actually are at lower dosages.
That first study you linked was a good one in this regard, but the summary still couldn’t help but tend towards “you smoke at all, you will die”. A graph would be helpful.
Actually, I’ll just make one.
Ah, okay. Because behaw defederated they’re not seeing anything from lemmy.world. They’re also not sending anything to lemmy.world. But they are sending stuff to blahaj.zone, so you can read that stuff.
I wonder if they’re seeing my responses, from kbin, to your comments, from lemmy.world, on blahaj.zone.
Most people seem to agree it wasn’t transphobia, but here’s the context: https://lemmy.world/post/1893561
There was some transphobia that came crawling out like usually happens when a trans topic starts getting active, but they got shut down pretty quickly
I’m not particularly attracted to any gender; I have no gender preference. I am however exclusively attracted to female sex organs.
The original thread asked “Hey, straight man, are you attracted to women or to femininity?” I didn’t answer that question because I think the question was too vague. I think “straight” means you like female sexual characteristics. Pre-op trans man, post-op trans woman, cishet woman, they all qualify.
Thread was nuked, here’s my response
The full comment, not just one cherry picked sentence
I hate to say it, but of the 7 trans women I’ve known, 6 have been like this. Everyone is the enemy, giant chip on the shoulder.
I mean, I get it. I grew up very poor, and for a long time any time I saw a rich person I wanted to deck them. Even if they did nothing wrong personally. Because my life was hell and they didn’t have to go through it, and they’re passively contributing to the system that made my life hell. So I hated them.
So yeah, I think trans people are just people, reacting to a hateful and cruel society in the way that any person would.
It is difficult to stay friends with someone like that. A lot of trauma. And collateral damage. I know, I lost friends over my issues.
Strangely enough of the 4 trans men I’ve known, none have been like this. Maybe they just internalized it.
I would totally date a pre-op trans man if they were okay with me liking their boobs.
Gotta be a pretty rare scenario, but if it happens, sure
There’s a trans man who posts some nsfw pics that I follow, and his philosophy is “please enjoy my boobs while you can, bc as soon as I can afford it I’m cutting em off”. If I knew him irl, I’d enjoy the boobs irl. But even then, he’d have to be pretty nonchalant to not get triggered or depressed by my appreciation of his feminine body, so I dunno if it could work out. Not to mention the more masculine he gets (hormones, surgery, etc) the less I’d be physically attracted to him. So definitely a short term thing.
Hi, you had a comment deleted by moderators. I can see in my notifications “Good question, why don’t you try answering it rather than…” but I can’t see the rest.
Since there’s no PMs available I created a magazine here where you can respond without getting banned/removed: https://kbin.social/m/Aesthesiophilia/t/228533/EndlessApollo
If you want
Edit: also anyone else who wants to cuss me out or something without being banned/removed please feel welcome, just don’t spam
I hate to say it, but of the 7 trans women I’ve known, 6 have been like this. Everyone is the enemy, giant chip on the shoulder.
I mean, I get it. I grew up very poor, and for a long time any time I saw a rich person I wanted to deck them. Even if they did nothing wrong personally. Because my life was hell and they didn’t have to go through it, and they’re passively contributing to the system that made my life hell. So I hated them.
So yeah, I think trans people are just people, reacting to a hateful and cruel society in the way that any person would.
It is difficult to stay friends with someone like that. A lot of trauma. And collateral damage. I know, I lost friends over my issues.
Strangely enough of the 4 trans men I’ve known, none have been like this. Maybe they just internalized it.
Here’s the thread
Atoms will fall apart and reach equilibrium too. No more atoms.