Personally, I’m so busy, and have so much mental load that just one less thing I have to do is a breath of fresh air. Now, if husband thinks to himself hey I have a little spare time, I can totally help AttackBunny out and do one of her chores for her….uh…. Yeah. Super hot. Idk if it’s as much about the actual act of doing the choice, or more likely, the though behind it, but yeah.
Could be real, either way I definitely get laid more when I do stuff around the house. I read a study that basically suggested doing chores helps because it relieves the stress of your partner, freeing them up to feel a little more amorous.
In my experience, this is 100% trying to get you to do more chores than you agreed to split with her. Graciously accept the compliment, and if she needs help with her chores obviously help her. But I wouldn’t go out of your way to do more chores than you agreed to. Otherwise you will eventually find that the agreed split is no longer a split at all, and then resentment will build up. Resentment of course being a silent relationship killer.
My wife calls it “chore-play” and it seems to really work for her. Even if its a trick, the house will be clean and everyone gets a little fun, what’s the harm?
Both is the answer. You do look hot doing chores. Also chores done is a turn on. It’s like oysters and chocolate, but your house is tidy and it’s not gross.
Yep, just like I tell my wife I love work (I can watch hours at it being performed).
The best way to show appreciation of you girlfriend/wife is helping with chores. (And thus limiting her time doing them, which results in more time together, win-win ;) )
It’s an actual thing. It’s what ‘providing’ is. Some people think, providing for a partner is bringing home money. But our monkey brain doesn’t even know what money is, since money is a new thing that bears no relevancy in biology.
Providing is making a good, livable and clean nest for your partner. Makes the monkey brain want to produce offspring to fill the clean nest.
Unironically, maybe not as a first date but a car wash date sounds pretty unique and hilarious enough to make an impression. Just make sure your date does not get bored, so put on an interesting show for them to keep them engaged.
Yea. I think woman are wired to be more attracted to the actual qualities of a man and ability to provide over the aesthetic appeal, but both are good obviously. I’m not a women, but have had this conversation with my partner. So I’m an expert (;
Women are just better than men in a practical sense lol. I’m just a dumb man. But me do chores, me man, me get laid.
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Just say you feel the same way when she does chores
Yes but it doesn’t hurt to play that game.
Personally, I’m so busy, and have so much mental load that just one less thing I have to do is a breath of fresh air. Now, if husband thinks to himself hey I have a little spare time, I can totally help AttackBunny out and do one of her chores for her….uh…. Yeah. Super hot. Idk if it’s as much about the actual act of doing the choice, or more likely, the though behind it, but yeah.
Take it from me, men who do chores around the house are so hot.
So are men who buy tickets to “Barbie”.
Sending positive Kenergy
What is bigger turn on, buying 5 suicide squad dvds or 2 tickets to Barbie?
Whichever one pays more of my morgage.
Will do :)
Could be real, either way I definitely get laid more when I do stuff around the house. I read a study that basically suggested doing chores helps because it relieves the stress of your partner, freeing them up to feel a little more amorous.
Let’s be honest she’s trying to get some and your oblivious. Wake up and read the room 😁😁
No, it’s my oblivious, don’t try and take that from me.
In my experience, this is 100% trying to get you to do more chores than you agreed to split with her. Graciously accept the compliment, and if she needs help with her chores obviously help her. But I wouldn’t go out of your way to do more chores than you agreed to. Otherwise you will eventually find that the agreed split is no longer a split at all, and then resentment will build up. Resentment of course being a silent relationship killer.
My wife calls it “chore-play” and it seems to really work for her. Even if its a trick, the house will be clean and everyone gets a little fun, what’s the harm?
This could be climate-related. She might mean you’re working too hard and need to cool off. Try to stay hydrated out there because you’re looking hot.
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Like a truly hoopy frood.
Both is the answer. You do look hot doing chores. Also chores done is a turn on. It’s like oysters and chocolate, but your house is tidy and it’s not gross.
Yep, just like I tell my wife I love work (I can watch hours at it being performed).
The best way to show appreciation of you girlfriend/wife is helping with chores. (And thus limiting her time doing them, which results in more time together, win-win ;) )
Query not compliable. I don’t know how you look.
Short answer yes
Long answer it might be a ploy but it’ll most likely work. If nothing else you doing your part gives her more time to be attracted to you.
It’s an actual thing. It’s what ‘providing’ is. Some people think, providing for a partner is bringing home money. But our monkey brain doesn’t even know what money is, since money is a new thing that bears no relevancy in biology.
Providing is making a good, livable and clean nest for your partner. Makes the monkey brain want to produce offspring to fill the clean nest.
Gonna go take any, if I even get them, future dates to a car wash and wash eh hell out of cars. Or bring them home and just clean.
Unironically, maybe not as a first date but a car wash date sounds pretty unique and hilarious enough to make an impression. Just make sure your date does not get bored, so put on an interesting show for them to keep them engaged.
Yea. I think woman are wired to be more attracted to the actual qualities of a man and ability to provide over the aesthetic appeal, but both are good obviously. I’m not a women, but have had this conversation with my partner. So I’m an expert (;
Women are just better than men in a practical sense lol. I’m just a dumb man. But me do chores, me man, me get laid.