and how many are those thats are bot ?

not to mention installing any chat app or using existing Instagram chat only take you less than a minutes to do

why you compare an achievement of someone who have live vastly different than you ? like for example you live in europe so you mostly eat bread, and people in asia mostly eat rice, you cant expect yourself as european to suddenly envy asian just because they eat more rice than you

just because we are all die doesnt means anything, the important thing is the different experience and journey that each of us have been through

imo dating is always transactional even before tinder, tinder just make it happen more often, also tinder only attract spesific kind of people so I cant really blame tinder for this